Family Dynamics

This week we discussed the different dynamics in a family. Something that really struck me was the conversation we had about Fathers. Brother Williams said that most often when Dad is isolated in a family it is because he feels embarrassed or shame because he is not as experienced as Mom in nurturing the children. I have never thought about things with this light. I know that each parent has their roles, but I think it is important that both parents take turns nurturing and helping the children. We also discussed the relationships between Mom and Dad and that if Mom and Dad have a quality marriage, go out on dates often, and tell each other they love each other in front of their children, the entire family will be affected in a positive way. Heavenly Father wants us to become like him, not live in his basement. Our goal should be to enter the temple and be sealed to an eternal companion.