Gender and Family Life

We often heard it said that someone that has lesbian or gay tenancies, was "born that way". They can't do anything about it because that is just the way they are. This does not make any sense at all. Why would Heavenly Father put us on this earth with a plan in action and then create some of his children with characteristics that would make it impossible for them to return to live with him? I do not believe that he would do this. The feeling of attraction to the same gender is often created due to a misunderstanding of emotion and feeling. When people feel something they may convince themselves that because they felt it something must be wrong with them and they must be "lesbian" or "gay". No one's eternal plan has that in store for them. The feelings that come due to same gender attraction are real, but they can be controlled. You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control how you react to what happens to you.